A good way to get a good wedding is to plan things as early as possible. This will also save you money….

Regarding asking your guests to send you pictures that they took in your wedding, I am not at all offended by that and I know a lot of people who feel the same way I do. Maybe because I have Asian roots and taking pictures in happy events like weddings is considered appropriate.

When using disposable camera, they usually come with a note informing the guests what they are for – to take pictures during the reception and to leave the camera on the table when they leave for home. It is a good idea, though, to assign a friend or one of the bridal entourage to collect the camera before the guests leave.

The 101 Ways to Save Money on Your Wedding is not written on stone. Some brides will choose some, some most, some none at all. It is meant to help/inspire couples on where they can cut costs.

Lastly, I am an advocate of hiring a professional, if one can afford it, as exemplified in at least two of my older posts about photography and photographers: Wedding Tips – Choosing A Wedding Photographer and Finding the Right Wedding Photographer.

Your photographer should know lighting, posing, and how to handle blinkers (someone who blinks everytime the camera shutter clicks). They should have professional backup equipment (pro camera bodies, a few pro lenses that make a variety of shots possible, and pro flash units). They should have an assistant to help them with carrying equipment, holding lights, helping to organize group pictures, fetching things from the car, and most importantly, watching the cameras while the photographer is on meal break to make sure they aren’t stolen (hiring a pro wont do you any good if the film or memory card goes missing).

Your photographer should know the how weddings and receptions flow so that they know where to be to get the best shots at the right time without missing anything, should know all the do’s and don’ts and rules and regulations of your venue and ceremony officiant, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, they should know how to compensate when something goes wrong.

Remember that no matter how much has gone into the planning, something ALWAYS goes wrong.

And I’m sorry, but depending on your guests to take your reception photos with disposable cameras is ridiculous. They’re your GUESTS. They should be invited to be a part of your day – to eat drink, relax, to visit with you, and to enjoy themselves. They are not there to work or to anticipate when, where or what you may want pictures of. And unless your guests actually know how to take a proper picture (and most don’t, that’s why there are professionals), those disposable table cameras can be quite ineffective and unreliable — dark, blurry images due to flash misfire, improperly exposed pictures (bright subjects with pitch black backgrounds), washed out skin, red eye in every shot, heads cut off, feet cut off, just plain bad composition, an entire camera full of pictures of the guest’s child making a mess with their cake, pictures of the floor, the ceiling, Aunt Sally’s behind, etc…

Also, disposables can be mistaken as favors for the guest to take home so that you don’t even get them back, they can end up not being used because the guest isn’t really into taking photos, the cameras can be defective, and they can also be quite expensive to develope. If you have a lot of tables, you could end up spending $1000 on disposable cameras when all is said and done. Why not save yourself the headache (and the risk) by putting that money towards hiring a professional? Even if you can’t afford all the bells and whistles that professionals offer today (like coffee table wedding albums or large format prints), at least make room in your budget for professional pictures-only coverage with archival quality prints. Depending on where you live, this could cost you $1000 to $3000 or more depending on the experience and talent of your photographer, and will ideally fall somewhere within 10-20% of your total budget.

Your wedding photography should be a priority, right up there with your venue, because it’s what you’ll have 20, 30, 40 years and more from now.

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